Often, we hear of those of you that may be having difficulty and need help but are reluctant to ask for it. Some of us are still caught up in the old “suck it up” culture that makes us believe we can handle it, we are tough, and we can take care of ourselves. I know what I’m talking about because I lived in that culture myself in my early years. I always thought of myself as a firefighter and a paramedic, and that I was the rescuer and the lifesaver. Now, while that is a noble position to hold in life, it is unreasonable to expect any of you to operate at peak performance and with a clear head when you see the difficulties and trauma as a first responder. Many times, in a response to help a department, we hear, “I’m fine, no one else here seems to be having a problem with the call and I’m not either”. What we often find out is that everyone is having a problem with the call, but no one wants to be the first to admit it. There is no shame in reaching out. We would be worried about you if difficult calls didn’t affect you.
Secondly, combine exposures to the many other difficulties that can occur in our lives such as relationship issues, financial problems, alcohol or substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and other related issues, and life can simply be tough.
Remember, WE ALL HAVE A STORY. We all, as emergency services people, have been subjected to trouble in our lives. It’s okay not to be okay, but it’s not okay to continue to live that way when there is help available. You owe it to yourselves to reach out. There are many programs available to you. Our Team is not the only available resource but we are here for you.
No obligation, totally confidential contact by calling 843.609.8300 or sending us a message on our contact link at https://firefightersupport.org/contact/.
Please give us an opportunity to help you.
Gerald